The way you look
The wink you give
Makes me know
You want to be here.
Here in the present
With me today
Laughing and talking
In our special way.
Special is how I feel
Special is what you give
The words you express
Enhance how I live.
I live with more joy
I live with peace
Looking forward to the day
Our hearts meet.
Reading is FUNdamental. So I hope you have fun reading about me and my adventures through life. As the title alludes, you'll read about Chicago dating experiences - for me and my friends. (Note: Some of the names will be changed to protect the idiots, any resemblance to you or a loved one is only coincidental and should not be taken personally. However, if there is a nugget of wisdom gleaned from my writings, please take it. It's not good to walk around in such disarray.)
Sunday, June 30, 2013
Friday, June 28, 2013
Ferris Bueller's Day Off
My day started at 4:30 a.m. with my own version of Ferris Bueller's Day Off in mind. While I didn't have Cameron and Sloane by my side, I had Jan and Mila. And it was definitely a different day than my usual. But before I provide the details, here's my report card of the day.
Horseland - A
Smurfs on pre-rally crowd opening - F
Smurfs on rally patrol - D
Smurfs on parade route partrol - B+
Fraggles at the pre-rally waiting area - B-
Fraggles at the rally - C
Fraggles at the parade - A
Bring It On Boys - B+ (purely because of my coaching abilities)
Bring It On Girls - A- (They screwed the dismount the first time)
So we got to the rally area bright and early this morning. A few hundred people, possibly a thousand were in and around the area. We eventually made our way to the front barricade area, so that we could be one of the first 100 in. Oh, how wrong we were! It was pure madness when people had to enter via jumping over or crawling under double blue barricades. (Bad planning!!!). This madness only got worse once I moved around (refused to climb or crawl) a barricade and attempted to walk with the crowd to enter Grant Park. People were pushing and shoving like it was Walmart on Black Friday.
My friends and I made it safely past the "bag security" check (note: this was a farce) and walked the long walk to the stage at Hutchinson Field. While we walked, hundreds, maybe thousands, of people ran past us. At this point we were resigned to just finding a good spot to hear the players live, see them on the Jumbo-tron and possibly catch slight glimpses at the stage.
We put our blankets down and prepared to wait. We were quickly joined by other friends and continued our wait with fun people around us. Until . . .
A fight broke out right in front of us, beside us, and then behind us. At this point, I was standing holding all my stuff. Imagine flip flops under my arms. All the while watching these guys fight without official intervention. (That's the short version of what really happened). As a result of the fight, lack of clear view, sun beating down on us, and general madness all around, my two friends decided we should leave. I agreed with this decision because we all know, people in the Chi like to retaliate with bullets. And I definitely did not have time for that.
We found a great spot to watch the parade right outside the rally area. And two guys kindly let Mila and I in front of them. This provided an even better view for us to see the Blackhawks and the Stanley Cup. After all, that is what we were there to see. The people around us were fun and friendly and a much better trade off from the rowdy peeps inside the rally. We were joined by others who also left the rally.
We chose a great position that allowed me to see Toews with the Cup! Yes, I saw Jonathan Toews with the Stanley Cup. Made my day. It was all worth it, at that point! Even if I did get a crappy pic of him lifting the cup. The memory is in my head forever. (or as long as my long-term memory lasts). Our parade location position also allowed us to get out, back into the downtown loop area, relatively easy. We saw some people
trying to knock down a tall gate put up around another field in Grant Park on the way. I wish more Chicagoans could show how to have a classy celebration. I guess I can't have it all my way. The red horse had plenty of seats and provided for a smooth ride north. By the end, I think I clocked 7+ hours in the sun and lots of pics to remember the day.
Horseland - A
Smurfs on pre-rally crowd opening - F
Smurfs on rally patrol - D
Smurfs on parade route partrol - B+
Fraggles at the pre-rally waiting area - B-
Fraggles at the rally - C
Fraggles at the parade - A
Bring It On Boys - B+ (purely because of my coaching abilities)
Bring It On Girls - A- (They screwed the dismount the first time)
So we got to the rally area bright and early this morning. A few hundred people, possibly a thousand were in and around the area. We eventually made our way to the front barricade area, so that we could be one of the first 100 in. Oh, how wrong we were! It was pure madness when people had to enter via jumping over or crawling under double blue barricades. (Bad planning!!!). This madness only got worse once I moved around (refused to climb or crawl) a barricade and attempted to walk with the crowd to enter Grant Park. People were pushing and shoving like it was Walmart on Black Friday.
My friends and I made it safely past the "bag security" check (note: this was a farce) and walked the long walk to the stage at Hutchinson Field. While we walked, hundreds, maybe thousands, of people ran past us. At this point we were resigned to just finding a good spot to hear the players live, see them on the Jumbo-tron and possibly catch slight glimpses at the stage.
We put our blankets down and prepared to wait. We were quickly joined by other friends and continued our wait with fun people around us. Until . . .
A fight broke out right in front of us, beside us, and then behind us. At this point, I was standing holding all my stuff. Imagine flip flops under my arms. All the while watching these guys fight without official intervention. (That's the short version of what really happened). As a result of the fight, lack of clear view, sun beating down on us, and general madness all around, my two friends decided we should leave. I agreed with this decision because we all know, people in the Chi like to retaliate with bullets. And I definitely did not have time for that.
We found a great spot to watch the parade right outside the rally area. And two guys kindly let Mila and I in front of them. This provided an even better view for us to see the Blackhawks and the Stanley Cup. After all, that is what we were there to see. The people around us were fun and friendly and a much better trade off from the rowdy peeps inside the rally. We were joined by others who also left the rally.
We chose a great position that allowed me to see Toews with the Cup! Yes, I saw Jonathan Toews with the Stanley Cup. Made my day. It was all worth it, at that point! Even if I did get a crappy pic of him lifting the cup. The memory is in my head forever. (or as long as my long-term memory lasts). Our parade location position also allowed us to get out, back into the downtown loop area, relatively easy. We saw some people
trying to knock down a tall gate put up around another field in Grant Park on the way. I wish more Chicagoans could show how to have a classy celebration. I guess I can't have it all my way. The red horse had plenty of seats and provided for a smooth ride north. By the end, I think I clocked 7+ hours in the sun and lots of pics to remember the day.
Thursday, June 20, 2013
Behind The Smile
Behind the smile
Lies hurt and pain
Fear and doubt
Take over again
The eyes twinkle
But they still cry
Inside they drip
No one knows why
The cheeks are rosy
Just like the heart
Beating in agony
As things fall apart
Life is happening
And all the while
She hides her thoughts
Behind the smile
Tuesday, June 11, 2013
Not quite Howie Mandel . . .
I want what I want when I want it!
In my early life, I generally got what I wanted, when I wanted it. Let's be honest, I wasn't asking for the moon and stars. It usually involved a teddy bear or jewelry. Shocker! But I quickly learned what steps I needed to take to get what I wanted in life. Or my super nice and super gracious parents rewarded me for my good behavior and hard work for my birthday, Christmas, or "Just Because". "Just Because" rewards are awesome! (side note: I love my parents bunches. The fact that they spoiled me is just bonus!)
As a person with OCD (read: Obsessive Control Disorder) [Yes, I know what it really stands for.] this general scheme of operating worked for me. My actions controlled what I got. Simple. But as I've gotten older, this isn't as easy of a scheme as I'd like. Now I don't control everything. If I did, this world would be so much better. (But that's info for another blog.) I can't come up with an iron-clad plan for getting the next "whatever" I want. Some of those "whatevers" are controlled by someone else. Boo-hiss. If that person is competent and sensible, I still get what I want. So, I mean, that's okay. I guess. But when they operate and decide differently than I, it sends my OCD into overdrive. This is compounded by the fact that I hate losing anything, let alone control (for lack of a better word) in more than one area of my life at a time. Then I'm in full OCD Overload Mode.
This mode is scary! Even for me. I've developed my own coping skills. Why my own, you ask? Mainly because I've never actually seen a professional for this diagnosis. [disclaimer: You should see a professional for any real diagnosis or mental health issue.] I digress. When I'm in OCD Overload Mode, I become frustrated a lot easier, I eat more crap, and I vent to my friends even more than normal.
So in a nutshell, lately I've been an irritable, fatty, blabbermouth. :) The end!
. . .but you can still touch me. I mean, if I give you permission.
In my early life, I generally got what I wanted, when I wanted it. Let's be honest, I wasn't asking for the moon and stars. It usually involved a teddy bear or jewelry. Shocker! But I quickly learned what steps I needed to take to get what I wanted in life. Or my super nice and super gracious parents rewarded me for my good behavior and hard work for my birthday, Christmas, or "Just Because". "Just Because" rewards are awesome! (side note: I love my parents bunches. The fact that they spoiled me is just bonus!)
As a person with OCD (read: Obsessive Control Disorder) [Yes, I know what it really stands for.] this general scheme of operating worked for me. My actions controlled what I got. Simple. But as I've gotten older, this isn't as easy of a scheme as I'd like. Now I don't control everything. If I did, this world would be so much better. (But that's info for another blog.) I can't come up with an iron-clad plan for getting the next "whatever" I want. Some of those "whatevers" are controlled by someone else. Boo-hiss. If that person is competent and sensible, I still get what I want. So, I mean, that's okay. I guess. But when they operate and decide differently than I, it sends my OCD into overdrive. This is compounded by the fact that I hate losing anything, let alone control (for lack of a better word) in more than one area of my life at a time. Then I'm in full OCD Overload Mode.
This mode is scary! Even for me. I've developed my own coping skills. Why my own, you ask? Mainly because I've never actually seen a professional for this diagnosis. [disclaimer: You should see a professional for any real diagnosis or mental health issue.] I digress. When I'm in OCD Overload Mode, I become frustrated a lot easier, I eat more crap, and I vent to my friends even more than normal.
So in a nutshell, lately I've been an irritable, fatty, blabbermouth. :) The end!
. . .but you can still touch me. I mean, if I give you permission.
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